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{{LCARS Page Title|Conflict Resolution<br><small>Author: [[User:FltAdml. Wolf|Fleet Admiral Tristan Wolf]]</small>|tan}} | |||
Conflicts within an online community often follow a typical cycle: | |||
* Private e-mailing: Two people exchange words publicly or privately, resulting in a back-and-forth over private e-mail; | * '''Private e-mailing:''' Two people exchange words publicly or privately, resulting in a back-and-forth over private e-mail; | ||
* Mediators step in: A few people try and mediate the conflict by suggestion methods of resolution. Both sides are too emotional to listen, though; | * '''Mediators step in:''' A few people try and mediate the conflict by suggestion methods of resolution. Both sides are too emotional to listen, though; | ||
* Threats: From "I'll leave if..." to "You'll be forced to leave if you don't..." | * '''Threats:''' From "I'll leave if..." to "You'll be forced to leave if you don't..." | ||
* The hardline: Someone finally says "Either you ____ or you leave!" | * '''The hardline:''' Someone finally says "Either you ____ or you leave!" | ||
* The White Flag Confession: One or more people in the conflict admit one of the following: | * '''The White Flag Confession:''' One or more people in the conflict admit one of the following: | ||
** They may have been too harsh; | ** They may have been too harsh; | ||
** They have stress in their life that caused this problem; | ** They have stress in their life that caused this problem; | ||
** They did something that inadvertantly led to this conflict, even though they didn't mean to; | ** They did something that inadvertantly led to this conflict, even though they didn't mean to; | ||
* Calls for more rules: People suggest rules which will avoid this future situation. | * '''Calls for more rules:''' People suggest rules which will avoid this future situation. | ||
{{LCARS Section Heading|Methods of Conflict Resolution|tan}} | |||
===Defend each other=== | ===Defend each other=== | ||
* ''From [http://www.usemod.com Meatball Wiki]'' | * ''From [http://www.usemod.com Meatball Wiki]'' | ||
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Don't break up arguments and respond to them line-by-line. This can be seen as overly aggressive and '''can cause discussions to get caught up in semantics.''' Respond to the unified idea that the person is trying to convey. This will force you to understand their side better, and it will keep things cooler. | Don't break up arguments and respond to them line-by-line. This can be seen as overly aggressive and '''can cause discussions to get caught up in semantics.''' Respond to the unified idea that the person is trying to convey. This will force you to understand their side better, and it will keep things cooler. | ||
[[ | <big>'''[[User:FltAdml. Wolf|Fleet Admiral Tristan Wolf]]'''</big><br> | ||
Founder of UFOP: StarBase 118<br> | |||
3 Dec 2004 | |||
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