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** They did something that inadvertantly led to this conflict, even though they didn't mean to. | ** They did something that inadvertantly led to this conflict, even though they didn't mean to. | ||
* Calls for more rules: People suggest rules which will avoid this future situation. --[[User:FltAdml. Wolf|FltAdml. Wolf]] 15:09, 3 Dec 2004 (EST) | * Calls for more rules: People suggest rules which will avoid this future situation. --[[User:FltAdml. Wolf|FltAdml. Wolf]] 15:09, 3 Dec 2004 (EST) | ||
==Defend eachother== | |||
From [http://www.usemod.com Meatball Wiki] | |||
: If you are personally attacked, don't defend yourself. That may be surprising - but defending yourself is not your job, it is the job of the other members in the online community. | |||
: Reasons: | |||
: * it is much more credible to the reader | |||
: * it's too hard to stay emotionally balanced when you defend against personal attacks, it is much easier even not to defend at all | |||
: * the experience to be defended is incredible, it is pure joy, enjoy it to defend and be defended creates strong emotional bonds among members, it builds trust | |||
: * And remember, most of the time personal attacks need not be defended at all, because the attacker only hurts his own reputation and credibility. However, ModelDesiredBehavior: if someone else is attacked, defend them. | |||
: While conflicts are typically seen as negative, they hold big chances to grow as a community, to build trust among the members, to grow in valuable experience. Observe and learn for the next conflicts. | |||
--[[User:FltAdml. Wolf|FltAdml. Wolf]] 15:18, 3 Dec 2004 (EST) | |||